--stupid love--

When you and your friends talk about love, what’s the first thing that comes into your mind? Well, I guess what comes into your mind is not about loving your family, obviously not your pet or even loving god but it’s about loving someone that you’ll cherish and spend your life with. Of course for religious people or old enough, they don’t think that way but for young people like us? Let’s face the real world and the reality that people now a days, when talking about love are thinking that way.

There’s nothing wrong of thinking that way and I’m not placing this at the negative side. To love and to be loved by someone is good, there’s nothing wrong with it but what I am saying is that let there be balance in your life when you had already felt that love.

As I had observed to the people around me, people were so crazy about love. That thing made me wonder why they’re acting that way. I couldn’t judge them also because I had never been in love, maybe the thing called “puppy love” but “true love”? I don’t think so. I asked them why they couldn’t get over with that person, they said that…”that’s how my heart feels, I can’t help it”. That statement again made me wonder. If the brain controls everything in your body system, then why can’t it control the heart?!?..Silly question isn’t it? I suppose the problem is not in the heart but it is the person owning it. A brokenhearted person (especially girls) always says that she can’t get over with the guy she loved. Of course, how can you get over to that person if you’re always telling to yourself that you can’t? You’re saying that you want to but you always keep in mind that you can’t live without him. I really understand it, I know its not easy but sometimes you also have to use your mind over your heart.

When I was young, I didn’t believe in love. I just thought that people were getting married because they wanted to, they’re happy but not in love. But when I grew up and reached high school, I had learned that love existed in this world. I had heard different love stories. And there’s one thing in common…that‘s when they had been broken hearted and then they wanted to move on, like what I had said earlier, they always cry and believed that they couldn’t live without them (the one they loved). That’s stupidity for me. I remembered that there was one quote telling the difference between love and stupidity. I don’t really believe in this..”always follow what your heart desires”. That’s why love is so stupid because if you’re in love, you do some weird and stupid things. You can’t tell anymore which is bad from good. Imagine?? Once that love strikes you, you can’t almost control yourself anymore. But still, you like to experience that love even if you know you’ll get hurt because that’s what makes you happy.

Stupid love is so amazing, right?..